As a thinking being I
consider spirituality and religiosity, intertwined concepts with no exclusive
semantics. I’ve strong faith in spirituality but I also consider religious institutions
to be a significant part of our lives. Practicing spirituality teaches us to be
better human beings and being religious boosts our confidence and mental
strength. My belief in either perennially responds to opportunities for in depth critiques. These
two dimensions certainly act like a light house in darker moments of our lives.
Sometimes, for many days existential dilemmas of fears, doubts, hurts and
expectations, pin one’s spirits down and one loses one’s perspective and with it
the desire to be proactive. Thwarted hopes and shaky convictions give constant
discomforting jolts. Here is where my
faith in spirituality helps me to transcend the transient and superfluous and
strike a private conversation with an unseen but all-embracing presence, which
always stands by me.
Confronted with the plethora of negative thoughts if you happen to
read a spiritually inspirational book; slowly your dormant spirit
is stirred and enthused to continue the destined journey which got suspended temporarily. You also learn to wriggle out of the painful predicaments of life sooner.
Being spiritual is to remain
consciously in the pursuit of reaching out to others through love, genuine
concern and forgiveness and by demolishing evil webs of competitiveness and
distrust. It is endeavoring to be generous and non-judgmental and to forge
cordial relationships by policing the false hubris within.
Nature too is a potent force of spiritual vibes. It has its own deadlines for enriching our lives. It requires no prompting. It is a great teacher but doesn't pontificate. It uplifts the mood. It displays its miracles overwhelmingly. It is a bonus par excellence. Albert Einstein once
remarked, “Look deep into Nature, and then you will understand everything.”
Respecting religious
institutions I imbibed in my growing up years as my parents were deeply
religious. Early morning recitation of hymns
from the holy book by my parents was a daily tradition in the family. Mom and
dad was an exemplary couple. Their life values were steadfast and above petty
personal gains or losses. Their simple lives were seasoned with repose, peace, warmth and tons of patience. Visiting gurudwara (temple of the
Sikhs) on Sundays and on sacred festivals was part of our upbringing. I took in
shades of all these influences which helped me to develop an independent value
system and a distinct identity.
In those days people were not
consumed by murderous hatreds or narrow parochialism. They respected all religious faiths. They were much more tolerant and participated in each other’s auspicious occasions and mourned bereavements together.
Religion does
not divide. It is the people who run these institutions, who sow the seeds
of contempt for other faiths by creating psychological bogeys in the minds of the believers.
It is their strategy to perpetuate their hegemony.
I visit the
gurudwara to pay obeisance and be inspired by the folks who
serve the institution devotedly and diligently. But mainly in the hope of
receiving some singular psychic stimulation for living purposefully.
In fact one goes through the
unique experience of sitting in the hall as part of the congregation and
listening to Shabad Kirtan (singing of sacred verses from the holy book 'Guru
Granth Sahib') with eyes closed. Soon one gets infused with an impalpable
tranquility one's mind instinctively longs for but which is unachievable in the
mad rush of unceasing activity. After the experience you feel blessed and revitalized to face life afresh
This apart, partaking of LANGAR (free kitchen)
is something one looks forward to. Sitting on
floor mats with other members of the community and being served delicious food in
steel plates conveniently designed for the purpose is utterly pleasurable,ennobling
and humbling.
Decrying any religion is alien to me. It makes no sense at
all. Luckily we have inherited glorious
and rich traditions of various faiths and have learnt to live with this
wonderful diversity. India is a sacred blend of vibrating and enchanting
tapestry of diverse religious faiths and languages, colorful cultures, holy
books, holy rivers, holy places of pilgrimage, mountains, valleys and frequent
festivals to celebrate life.
Spirituality and religiosity are the two sides of the coin which is called life.
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