I’ll here
touch upon two opposite concepts, which are in fact, choices before us to
determine the course of our lives. These are, care versus neglect.
The notion of opposites is unmistakably woven
in the tapestry of our lives. One exists because of the other.
Care is such
a sweet and inspiring concept. It encompasses in its semantic fold plethora of
positive emotions. The concept of care is inextricably linked to our existence
as social beings. It entails spontaneity of action in the expression of love,
compassion, regard and a sense of responsibility towards our dear ones, our
friends and society in general. It promotes and enriches the gift of life and stands for
love for humanity. It is the cornerstone for the success of our short odyssey
on this earth. Care is a magical concept if genuine and lubricates the wheels
of human relationships.
The idea of care makes or mars romantic love.
The articulation of the phrase ‘I care for you’ opens the door for the deluge
of feel good emotions. The starry-eyed soars on cloud nine. It means you matter;
your well-being is of utmost importance to the other. Your self-esteem,
confidence and love of life increases tenfold. It affirms life as a unique blessing
Care is therapeutic too. Long back, when my
loving parents were alive, we’d visit them often. On one visit, as we stepped
on the verandah, I could see through the net door, dear father lying on the bed and
my mother tending to him. Unfortunately,
dad had a nasty fall and badly bruised his elbow and knee and mom was trying to
dress his wounds. He looked shaken. For a second, he gazed at me with the distinctive
emotion of his, which he had reserved for his daughter. It was like a soothing
electric current. I understood and took over the task from mom. Tenderly and uttering
soothing nothings, I cleaned and dressed slightly oozing abrasions and
instantly he regained his usual welcoming, frame of mind. My little act of true
concern helped in lifting his spirits and he recovered soon thereafter.
On the other
hand, its complete opposite is the negative emotion of neglect, utter disregard
for others, complete selfishness, never imagining oneself being in other's shoes,
indifference and disinterestedness in general. It is an undesirable emotion,
which only generates unhealthy vibes. The company of such a person is never
welcome, and is rather avoided. Such people’s fragile egos don’t acknowledge or
recognize others’ contribution to their success stories. They’re self-centered.
Their armor is the show of self-righteousness. Either they practice torture of
silence or nonstop monologue.
Carelessness
has many harmful ramifications in the smooth flow of our social ties. It is no virtue. It is a hurtful
trait to have, in whatever capacity or circumstance you live your life.
Old people if ignored by their children go
into depression and never recover as they lose the will to live. Just imagine
the fate of children neglected by their parents. They fall into bad company,
lag behind in studies, start making excuses to escape punishment and soon degenerate
into self-destruct. They self-deny the life enhancing attributes, which boost our
confidence level to face challenges boldly.
Let’s remind ourselves time and
again that qualities of care and kindness go a long way in easing out the bumps
of life. These facilitate our taking the right route towards a more purposeful
sojourn here.
linked to ABC Wednesday TWO-SHOES-TUESDAYl WORDLESS WEDNESDAY
Friends,welcome here as always!
