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heirlooms
Pair of jugs,the lace, small bowl and the lace centerpiece. All about 85 years old.BTW I designed the cushions behind. |
Heirlooms
are antique artifacts, furniture items, furnishings, fancy upholstery,
exquisitely crafted decorative articles, kitchen relics and many more cherished
family treasures that pass from generation to generation as a way of
inheritance. Sometimes such items are of great historical significance,
monetary value and are a gateway for revisiting a family’s history.
They’re a
link to our ancestry and fountain of many enlightening tales about our parents'
early days and our grandparents' times. If one happens to inherit a few such objects
one can be proud owner of a mini museum bonding us to the past. In fact,
through these legacies, past, present and future co-exist in a linear
unbreakable bond. There is never an absolute break. Heirlooms take us back in time
forming a fascinating cradle of oral history lessons thereby familiarizing us with
the origin of our cultural traditions, rituals, festivals associated with our
parentage.
However,
taking proper care of these vintage materials entails effort, yet there is a
tacit pride and sense of sentimental belonging, which they evoke with our
lineage that is precious.
I consider
myself lucky to possess a few entities, which I’ll refer to here.
My mother
belonged to a well to do land owning family and received rich gifts as part of
her dowry. Since no body was aware of the importance of those valuables, over time,
either they were misplaced or sold, being considered old fashioned. Out of the few I got there are two brass jugs (shown above)
purchased by my maternal grandpa, I think around 1920 and gifted to my mom at
her marriage. I recall, when I was small my mother used to pour water in our
tumblers from that brass jug at dinnertime.
My other memory is that later, a glass jug took its place and my mom
demoted it to the upper shelf of the kitchen cabinet. Then there was a circular
small brass bowl. Its bottom displays my grandpa’s name carved in Urdu language.
It was the youngest sibling’s privilege to have his vegetable dish in that.
Whenever I look at the jugs, my grandparents images float in my mind scape
picturing an old man of medium stature with a lean frame but large glazing eyes and
pearly teeth cracking jokes and playing games with us. My
grandma was totally opposite in personality attributes. She was blue-eyed, very
fair, tall, strong and practical. Both of them were the epitome of the purest
of the pure love. We their daughter’s children were special for them and they
would go out of their way to do our bidding to please us.
During those tender years, we were
selfish and took them as ours hundred percent They were sort of our altar
ego. In the evenings I'd insist on going with grandma to see her milking the buffalo and the
cow at a distance of half a mile; where there was a large shed and a room for
the cattle including two pairs of oxen and the farm hand who looked after them. I’d watch raptly grandma pressing the
teats and milk came out in thin streaks. One day it so happened that the cow
suddenly swept its tail over her body, presumably to drive away flies or some
stinging insect, moved her legs, and disturbed grandma so that half the milk was spilled.
On
my repeated tantrums, she allowed me one day to sit on a low stool and try my
hand at squeezing the teats. Fearfully I
did it and failed. Our short visits were always exploratory, mirthful and educative in the ways of the village life. I can go on and on with the reservoir of cherished memories I treasure in my sub conscious.
I lovingly preserve a fabulously crocheted
lace centerpiece, done by my mother in her young days. After some
restoration work, I use it for special occasions.
There is also a beautiful lace I've about three meters
long. More than eighty-five years ago, dear mother did it for sewing it on to a
mantelpiece. I wonder how she could muster such patience to crochet that
superbly looking lace in white cotton thread.Polyester thread came much later.
There are
few other objects, which I inherited but that would be the subject matter of a new
post some other time.
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Wonderful take!!
ReplyDeleteNice narrative. I always worry about getting to attached to STUFF, which I've lost over time from fire, flood, and loss.
ReplyDeleteROG, ABC Wednesday
Thanks Deepak ji!
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Roger.We prize these objects because they keep us linked to our heritage. The association makes us feel we are part of something bigger than merely ourselves.
ReplyDeleteNice post..!
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Murthy ji!
DeleteI love heirlooms, too, but it seems the younger generation want different kinds of things. It is a bit sad.
ReplyDeleteLeslie
abcw team
Hi Leslie,
DeleteYes, younger generation is too enveloped in the up market technologies to give a thought to these delicate interests. I think it is also due to lack of communication between parents, grandparents and grand kids. Sentimental and respectful bonding no longer exists. That is the reason so many young people feel rootless and go astray in no time.
A nice take!
ReplyDeleteThanks Amit!
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