There’s only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self – Aldous Huxley
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Moving to the hills in summer
The popular adage ‘Nothing comes out of nothing’ comes full circle for me around this time of the year. Running away from the sweltering heat of the plains becomes a necessity especially if you have a small place you can call your own, some where in the hills. Fortunately I have one in the lap of hills at Kumarhatti in Himachal Pradesh. The transition from your permanent home to the temporary one in the mountains is a herculean task, and the exercise is worth mentioning to validate the wisdom which lies at the core of the above quip.
I had to work round the clock for a few days before embarking on the intended journey. You can well imagine the toil and travails of winding up a fully operational household. Every conceivable issue has to be dealt with. Starting from the payment of utility bills to lawn care, security, mail delivery and much more has to be taken care of. After that the momentous date for moving up is fixed. It is here that the toughest task starts. Arranging provisions and other stuff in the car, including water bottles and some food stuff… require the skill of a master craftsman. Finally you reach your destination after overcoming traffic jams, traffic snarls, raging tempers and racing hearts. Great relief it is to be in one piece after the twists and turns of the eventful journey.
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. In the process of settling down you have to pass through unavoidable drudgery and experience muscle pulls and pains in the body because of over exertion and stair climbing. In the real world one has to bake the cake to eat it too. Likewise to enjoy the sweet coolness one has to set the things right in the summer home before one reaps the fruits of one’s labour. It is an exercise involving many days before there is a semblance of a feeling of home sweet home.
But you can’t help noticing the sweat less activity and the cool breeze fanning you. Even the overstrained back tries to straighten up, already nourished by the whiff of clean and fresh mountain air.
The teething troubles, major and minor hic-cups are all forgotten after a few days. Long walks in balmy air and the sight of lanky pines swinging in the breeze; transport you to a dreamlike world. Sharpened appetite makes you feel stronger and fitter. Lethargic feelings of the plains produced by whirling fans, deafening coolers and ACs are bidden farewell to. You feel energized and take on life with a positive orientation.
It is however at night that the surreal aspect of hills is revealed. You step into the balcony and behold the oasis of twinkling lights stretching up to the horizon and brightly blinking stars in the cloudless sky over head. The fantastic spectacle gets etched in your mind. It is such exotic sights which leave indelible images in the reservoir of your memory.
You deserve it all, after going through the stresses and strains of a sort of domestic upheaval.
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Monday, May 16, 2011
Why I Love a Morning Walk
Stepping out of the gate every morning, the first one to greet me is the balmy cool breeze. Instantly it embraces me in its fold and accompanies me all the way. It lathers my body with its scented gentleness and bathes it with unseen strokes. Its fragrant freshness continues caressing me with its sweet presence. While I sleep at night it is at work. It gathers all the sweet smells emanating from the verdure around to present to me, its dear friend and admirer, at dawn.
It stays totally in sync with me. It writes my thoughts in my head long before I ink them on paper. It loosens the knots in my grey cells, calms me and prepares me for the day .It buckles me up to face the challenges. It goads me to introspect and contemplate. It wants me to learn each day and be wise.
I prefer to walk alone. I have so many conversations to do. The leaves, buds, flowers, hanging seed pods and swaying branches talk to me when I pass by them. Sometimes they pour their angst out against the humans for being indifferent and callous. I keep listening like a soul mate and that satisfies them. They understand and don’t press for an answer.
When I am out early I observe a birds’ meet. Before embarking on their respective hunt for grub they hold an assembly. Perched on the twigs of a richly leafed tree they say hello to each other in the form of no holds barred crescendo of chirping, twittering, squeaking and many unnamed sounds. It is their way of welcoming the day together and displaying solidarity. Suddenly they come out in a flourish and fly away hither and thither but not without acknowledging my presence by tweeting over my head.
My morning walk is on a straight road with no turns and bumps which surprisingly is least trodden. On one side it is lined with trees. Their luxuriant branches cover one third of the road like a canopy. While I stroll under this umbrella, I instinctively finger the leaves above. .At times the touch is smooth and soft and at other times rough and abrasive like life itself. The wind fans my hair, I yawn and feel drowsy, strength leaving my legs and I lose myself to the intoxication.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Cuckoo Comes Calling
Throughout the day I remain alert not to miss her song because of the joy it provides. From where it comes, I fathom not. I can merely guess from the pitch of the sound ,whether it is huddled somewhere in the thick foliage of a mango tree, which is growing in our vicinity or perched on a rich leafy branch of the Neem at a distance. For me the voice symbolizes a mysterious poignancy. Many questions crop up inside me. What and who inspire her to sing with such depth of tone and vibrancy? Is she pining for her elusive mate who is unrelenting? Does the song express the pain and longing of her heart and soul? Or is she besotted by the soothing balmy ambience of the season itself?
Her musical notes start on a medium pitch and become full throated after a few seconds. Her sonority lasts for half a minute and then she takes a breather and begins all over again. She keeps this schedule till mid day and then rests for a couple of hours. When the day cools down, her second shift of refreshing our environs begins all over again. May be she knows that there is an admirer of hers missing her melody and pricking her ears in wait. So she comes and obliges. Telepathy as they say it. How strange the ‘kali koel’ with its mellifluous voice has ordinary looks. So be it. Rightly said, isn’t it? that ‘beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.’ In this case it lies in the ears of a devotee.
I only saw her one day when I was coming back from my morning walk. I stood there watching her chasing the predator crow with ferocity and anger which was evident from the fluttering wings and a threatening sound. The scavenging crow is a nightmare for small birds like the cuckoo as it destroys their eggs and nests.
As the heat intensifies she may become elusive again. But not for long. I am sure when the rainy season comes along , once more we will be inundated by the flow of her melodic voice through the rustling and glistening wet leaves of her beloved mango tree, laden as it would be with the luscious ripe fruit.(Our folklore associates this bird with the tree which gifts us the king of fruits.)
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Putting up a Pasta Dinner
Hi friends, what say you to da li'l effort!!!
Yesterday evening I was absorbed in surfing the net and my hubby in surfing the TV channels in the other room. All of a sudden I heard him calling me. I was so immersed in reading something of interest, that I completely forgot that it was already 9 o’ clock and late for dinner. Not that I have not faced such situations before. But today I was in no mood to make any special effort to cook something from scratch. I was inclined towards some quick fix formula. It was at this juncture I remembered that there are four or five boxes of different varieties of pasta –whole wheat – brought from the US by our daughter and this is the right occasion to put up a pasta dinner.
Now it is a fact that lately we have developed a lot of liking for this Italian dish. It so happened that when we were visiting our children in the US we were taken on a sight seeing tour of New York. After we had meandered through Manhattan and Broadway-my dream destinations- we entered an Italian restaurant for lunch. We placed an order for veggie pasta with Italian sauce. The dish proved to be very delicious as well as filling. After that we tried all variations in pasta cooking at home and enjoyed immensely. It is every thing rolled into one and becomes a full meal. In Indian cooking we have to do so much for a proper meal which has to be planned in advance.
Compared to an Indian meal, preparing pasta is simple and any novice can fix it up fast. It is healthy too, as any number of veggies available can be added. Determined to improvise a meal in a jiffy, I asked my husband to help in cutting the vegetables which I had got from the market a day before. Subsequently the cabbage was shredded ,carrots cut lengthwise into medium pieces, a large onion chopped, a couple of garlic cloves crushed, tomatoes cut into squares and a few threads of green coriander washed and put in place. Here I stood waiting to do my part. On one burner I heated two tbsp.of oil in a pan and sautéed the veggies according to the instructions on the box and added condiments to our taste. On the second burner I boiled about 200 gms.of spiral pasta my favorite shape “al dente”…… (I read somewhere that in socialite circles, it is not enough to mention that one had had the yummy pasta in this or that restaurant. To be considered chic one is expected to know the particular variety e.g. whether it was spaghetti, vermicelli, fusilli, rotini, penne, farfalle, macaroni et al. The list is long)……. In the meantime veggies were done. I added the boiled pasta into the pan and asked my better half to do the blending part, while I laid the table (simple, two plates with forks and a bottle of sauce.) The cooked pasta looked vivid, fresh and inviting. It was for the first time that both of us participated in the cooking process together. Both of us enjoyed ourselves and had a very satisfying and nutritious meal into the bargain.
We have started liking pasta so much that we prefer to eat it every other day. I keep on trying various permutations and combinations of vegetarian and non- vegetarian recipes based on pasta. And I have noticed that we are able to consume more vegetables with it and that too in a semi cooked stage where vitamins are not lost as in our currying of everything. It is heartening that our dietary habits are overcoming the rigidity of taste and we are slowly incorporating dishes of other cultures in our cuisine. The internet is a miracle medium which has opened wide the corridors of information about every thing imaginable in this universe including food. According to Bernard Shaw, “There is no love sincerer than the love of food.” Pasta like Pizza is increasingly becoming very popular with the old and the young e all over the world. In good Indian stores pasta is available in various sizes and shapes. It is making inroads into the Indian kitchen, tickling the taste buds of Indian middle and upper middle class youth who is precursor of new trends in every thing: food habits, entertainment mediums as well as haute couture.
Monday, April 11, 2011
The Indispensable Maids
Monday, April 4, 2011
SPRING AT THE DOOR STEP
Monday, March 7, 2011
On going through eye surgery
I was the protagonist in one such circumstance which I am going to share with you. I was managing my life all right with good vision in my right eye which I got operated upon for removal of cataract and implantation of lens a few years back. A few days back however, I decided to go for a similar operation for my left eye also, confident of gaining better quality of vision for both. It took me about a couple of days to prepare myself mentally and physically for the ordeal. (I had almost forgotten the previous one which was any ways a good one.) After discussing with a few of the neighborhood ladies who had undergone this surgery successfully from an ophthalmologist who is running a clinic at a convenient location from our house; off we went there for consultation. Now the problem in our country is that where ever or whenever you go to a medical facility, may be a government hospital, a free dispensary or a high end clinic, the scenario is the same. Throngs of people are seen in the corridors, waiting rooms and even verandahs waiting for their turn with the doctor. And the wait is lengthy and frustrating. The system of prior appointment does not work because of our lack of discipline and the sheer number of patients. Consequently there is a huge wastage of time, sometimes really unnerving.
We had the same experience of endless wait though we had been given specific time by the receptionist. Who cares! There is no dearth of patients. We waited and waited and finally I was taken to the optometrist who had a charming persona. After examining my eye and going through the reading drill he confirmed that I had cataract which needs to be removed and replaced with an IOL (intra ocular lens).My lens measurement was also taken and I was shown into the eye specialist’s room who after the required examination of the eye suggested that the surgery could be performed day after the following day. So my blood sugar was checked and an allergy test was also done in preparation for the surgery. At home the whole of the next day was spent in putting eye drops at fixed intervals and mentally preparing myself for the coming operation. Since I was asked to report at 6.45 in the morning after three insertions of eye drops at an interval of 15 minutes, I was to get up very early. Due to anxiety that I might not be late I had a very disturbing sleep and finally got up at four. After the morning ablutions and eye drops regimen I duly presented myself at the clinic at the appointed hour.
Interestingly, the same time was given to another patient who was already
present, when I reached there. So my turn which was said to be the first became second. Hereafter one and a half hour spell of anxious waiting ensued. Ultimately I was led up the stairs to a room adjoining the operation theatre where I was made to lie down before being given the anesthetic injections around my eye of which I was very much scared of and had told the doctor so. I screamed when the liquid was being injected because it was so painful and then another prick at a different place and already the area was losing pain sensation and getting numb. I was immediately taken to the operation theatre where the whole procedure took about half an hour and the surgeon’s remark; “You are very brave” made me feel good. But surely he must be making this statement for every patient to ease the trauma. My eye was bandaged and I was helped down the stairs .Momentarily I felt dazed but soon I was escorted to our car and got seated there to be driven home by my better half-who was my constant support throughout.
The next morning we went for the removal of the bandage and instructions for post operative care. And it is at this stage that I experienced an unexpected shock. First there was the usual inordinate delay. I had hoped that the operated patients would be given preference but nothing of that. At last when I was actually seated before the doctor, he removed the bandage and made me place my chin at a spot in the middle of the machine and asked me to open my eye. With baited breath I opened it to find a white haze blocking the seeing process. It was a nightmarish feeling and I let the doctor know it. For a second I felt as if thunder has struck me. Then the doctor allayed my fear by telling that it happens in some cases and with medication the vision would be restored but it would take more time. The next couple of days were very stressful for me. But during the week I could discern slow improvement everyday.
At the next visit after a week the doctor found the progress satisfactory and assured me that after about a month my vision would normalize. In the meantime I hope and pray that it should be so. But for the moment my left eye sees as much as it was before the surgery. I would continue to use medications for another month though.
So folks every experience has its own peculiar elements and sometimes totally unexpected ones which have the potential of changing the course of your life completely.